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Children need parents by their side, you can’t yell or ignore your child. He or she depends on you for food, a place to sleep, clothes and a shelter to keep them safe.
When a child grows up their going to hate you & not like anybody they meet. What I mean by that the child is going to grow up and won’t tell people things or maybe he or she won’t talk at all. If a parent isn’t there emotionally or physically. The kids are going to think the parents don’t care about them or something that’s completely different.
Here’s a example if a child hears you yelling at them because they did something stupid. They probably thought I need to tell my parents what I did but when they do, you yell. This will equals a negative effect on them. They’ll bottle their feelings and not tell you anything.
I remember when I was 12 I asked a woman why do you hate men. She responded with “Well it started with my abusive father, he was never there for me and when I did something he would yell or hit me. So I became a feminist to rebel against the abusive fathers that hurt children.”
I understand what she was saying. It’s sad what world we live in. I hope she’s doing better.
I asked my friend if he had a toxic relationship with anybody including parents. He quote said “ Well my father was never there for me. He would only sent my expensive gifts but that didn’t fill my happiness. I wanted him there but he never wanted to visit. On Christmas he said he was coming but he never did. The painful thing is that I sat on the cold driveway waiting for him. I was 9 and stupid. Why did I think he would come, he never would come and see me. He doesn’t love me. My mom was there for me but not all the time. She would drink and do drugs. She was a great parent but not a good therapist. I have 2 kids now, I’m a single parent. I’m trying my best to be there for them. Please be there for your kids.” (He wrote this/ I did not edit or touch he’s work.)
Please be there for your children and give them all the love you can.
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